Ham: Greetings, children, I am Ham and I am happy and grateful that you have chosen to come this evening. Tonight let us talk about the wonder of growth. Spiritual growth goes on unless it is actively obstructed. It is fairly constant, although there may be some noticeable bursts coming between periods of relative quiet. There are also unconscious obstructions sometimes which must be consciously removed for growth to go ahead safely. There are seasons of growth where these obstructions are removed and growth happens fairly rapidly. But over all, spiritual growth is fairly constant and completely unconscious.

You will notice the fruits of the spirit. You will notice inner changes which open new possibilities and further growth. Spiritual growth is experienced in the soul. You feel the soul expanding, even solidifying. You feel your spiritual fruits multiply.

You have active links to the greater spirit through prayer and meditation. Prayer is like a nutrient to growth. You may pray for what you think you need, but the Master gardener will add what he knows you need.

Let us speak of obstacles to growth. Obstacles are those little areas where one harbors a stubborn insistence on one’s own views. This can be in the form of resentment, non-forgiveness, any hatred in its many forms, and fear in its many guises. Some people fear love and most people fear love somehow, some way within themselves. There are some hidden corners where you may be afraid to love yourself for in that love there is acceptance. Many of you have old parental attitudes hidden away, disapproval of yourselves in some manner. But I say to you, these obstacles must all be removed one by one.

Do not be afraid to open every door, no matter how painful or embarrassing you may feel about yourself in that place. For when you come to acceptance and love, then growth can occur, maturity can ripen. Much of maturing consists in simply moving toward greater and greater self-love. Self-love, in this sense, is not selfishness but the acceptance of the Father’s love.

Relax in your gradual acceptance of the Father’s love. Recognize old fears as they come up and recognize the fear of love when you see it. Then, work toward removing it by endeavoring to see yourselves through the Master’s loving eyes. What are your questions?

Q: Ham, this is going to be my last night for a while, I want to thank you for all your counsel in the time I have been here and I wonder if you have any counsel for me?

Ham: Yes my dear, the way is opening for you in ways you have not expected but nonetheless have embraced. You have shown great spiritual courage and a willingness to follow the leading of the spirit wherever it shall lead. This is very important and you are growing closer to your spiritual guidance every day. Be at ease and let go of your fears for you will be shown the way. Everything is fine.

Q: Ham do you have any counsel for me tonight?

Ham: My son, you do well. You are finding great inner strength, but also the door to inner tenderness is opening wider every day. Remember the Master’s meekness before God. Ever was he humble, grateful, and loving and in these ways, ways of quiet meekness, you are progressing. Continue to look forward and not backward. Continue to embrace the Master’s way of meek obedience to the Father’s love.

Q: Ham, Jim asked for a message please.

Ham: Yes my son, you do well and are finding great inner strength to face the challenges before you. One foot before the other is how your life will progress. Little victories are just as important as big ones. Again, follow the Master’s example. Be at peace as you go forward. Rest in his love and draw strength from his constant reassurance.

Q: May I ask for a personal message myself.

Ham: Certainly, my daughter, do not be anxious for you are doing something important from which you can draw courage years from now. Have inner assurance that you will be led in the right directions and provided with what you are needing. You are growing in the spirit and as we discussed that growth can be frightening and give you the feeling of instability, but the reality is that growth will give you the strength and stability you require. So be at ease my daughter, these feelings will pass.

Q: Do you have anything for Rebecca?

Ham: Yes. My dear, you do well. You are gradually but steadily removing those old fears which have been obstacles in your growth. The way ahead opens steadily but certainly. Rest in complete assurance for all is well.

Q: Jarad?

Ham: Yes my son, likewise you are removing old fears. You still retain old scars from childhood which can cloud your view of yourself and others at times. But gradually and surely you are breaking through old restrictive patterns of thought and coming into greater understanding of yourself. The way opens my son. Be at peace, for you do well.

Q: From Zura0208: Goodevening Ham, A few weeks back I asked you if my sister would be/get any better with her back. She had a replacement knee and now has arthritis of the spine and snosis. She can only walk a short distance before her hips start to burn and at this point she must sit down. Plus she has Parkinson's Disease on her right side. The Dr. has increased the strength of her medication and it takes a few weeks before it takes affect. I pray that she will overcome this and be able to function on a halfway normal scale. What are your thoughts?

Ham: My daughter, often the greatest spiritual lessons are learned through physical suffering. The body is a temporary vessel. It will gradually wear out and this is part of life. The adjustments that are made in coping with the aging body are very valuable. Do not fear the inevitable aging process for yourself or your sister. Suffering often begets spiritual progress and insight. So, be at peace.

Q: Do you have a personal message for Norbert?

Ham: Be at peace my son. All is well. Sometimes in youth, the natural processes of life can seem very dramatic and all encompassing. One’s passions are aroused and it seems that older people take things much too relaxedly. Find peace, my son. Do not worry so much, for life continues as it always has. Gain peace and wisdom through prayer.

Q: Keri thanks you for her previous messages and would like a personal message tonight.

Ham: Greetings my daughter. You are also a person of great passion and you are often wearing your heart on you sleeve, so to speak. With the spiritual perspective, you will be able to step back a little and gain perspective on the difficulties of the moment. Many opportunities and changes lie just down the road, so do not worry about the present for all will be well.

Q: do you have a personal message for Charlie B?

Ham: Certainly. My son, you do well. You life’s perspective continues to change and widen. You are gradually growing calmer and more at peace within yourself. You are a man who always seems calm to others, but often this is not so. Gradually, the inner self is coming into line as your morontia mind gains greater and grater control. Be at peace my son, you do well.

Q: Do you have any feedback for me this week?

Ham: Yes, my son. You are doing well and are finding great peace and comfort within that was not there just a few years ago. Release your conscious mind into the hand of the Father and thus expand the Father’s control in your life. Remember that the Master stands beside you ready to help you whenever it is needed. Be at peace my son, for you do very well.